Looking Closer to Home: 50 Photos from 50 U.S. States

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Inspired by my last post, I thought it’d be fun to take a walk down memory lane and find a photo from every single U.S. state I’ve visited. After hitting my 50-country milestone earlier this year, it felt like the perfect time to look a little closer to home and reflect on my travels around the U.S.

Over the years, I’ve spent significant time (meaning a year or more) living in Hawaii, Pennsylvania, Virginia, the District of Columbia, and now California, along with a memorable summer spent up in Massachusetts. Going through this exercise definitely made me realize there are a few states I really need to revisit. My time in these spots was essentially a quick pit stop, and I hardly have any photos to show for it!

  • New Hampshire
  • Indiana
  • Mississippi
  • Connecticut

Here’s a recap of all the states I’ve visited, including the year of my very first visit.

Hawaii – 1980s (when I’m born!)

Grand Canyon of the Pacific on Kauai

California – 1996

Vineyards in Oakville, Napa Valley

Oregon – 1999

Checking out the beaches along the Oregon Coast

Washington – 1999

Hiking at Mt Rainier National Park

Nevada – 1999

Hiking around Red Rocks State Park near Las Vegas

Maryland – 2002

Staycation at the MGM National Harbor

Washington DC – 2002

Segway tour around the National Mall

Pennsylvania – 2006

Finishing up the Philadelphia Half Marathon

New York – 2006

Outside Buffalo to see Frank Lloyd Wright’s Robbie House

New Jersey – 2006

Beach weekend along the Jersey Shore at Brigatine Beach

Delaware – 2007

Vodka tasting in Rehoboth Beach

Virginia – 2009

Vineyard visits in Loudoun County

Florida – 2010

Hanging out in Miami Beach before the afternoon storm!

Louisiana – 2013

Strolling around the French Quarter in New Orleans

Mississippi – 2013

My first time trying oyster rockefeller, in Gulfport Mississippi

Massachusetts – 2014

Eating delicious cannoli in Boston!

Alabama – 2014

Exploring the Rocket Center in Huntsville

Tennessee – 2014

Plantation tour outside of Nashville

Illinois – 2014

Chicago Skyline

Indiana – 2014

Having a dinner at a diner in Indianapolis

Vermont – 2015

Strolling Church Street in Burlington Vermont

North Carolina – 2015

Visiting Duke University

Texas – 2016

Exploring Big Bend National Park

Arizona – 2016

Visit to Grand Canyon National Park in the winter

Rhode Island – 2016

Touring the incredible mansions in Newport

New Hampshire – 2017

stopped at a diner in Salem enroute to Maine

South Carolina – 2017

Strolling the streets of Charleston

Connecticut – 2017

Walking around Yale University

Maine – 2018

Exploring the Maine coast

Kentucky – 2018

Visiting the Makers Mark Distillery

West Virginia – 2018

At the West Virginia State Capitol

Georgia – 2019

Exploring Tybee Island, Georgia

Ohio – 2019

Visited Frank Lloyd Wright’s Westcott House, outside of Springfield

Missouri – 2019

Visited the Gateway Arch in St Louis

Arkansas – 2019

Wandering around the incredible museum at Crystal Bridges in Bentonville

Oklahoma – 2019

Walking along the Arkansas River at The Gathering Place in Tulsa

New Mexico – 2019

Visiting Meow Wolf in Santa Fe

Utah – 2019

Biking around Moab

Colorado – 2020

Visiting Mesa Verde National Park in Southwest Colorado

Nebraska – 2020

Visited a monument along the Oregon Trail in Nebraska

South Dakota – 2020

Explored Badlands National Park in South Dakota

North Dakota – 2020

Running along the Red River in Fargo

Minnesota – 2020

Walking along the Mississippi River in Minneapolis

Wisconsin – 2020

Visited Frank Lloyd Wright’s Taliesin in Wisconsin

Michigan – 2020

Visited Frank Lloyd Wright’s Smith House located in Bloomfield Township near Detroit

Iowa – 2020

Running along the Iowa River in Ames, home of the University of Iowa

Kansas – 2020

Visited the Kansas State Capitol in Topeka

Wyoming – 2020

Visited Yellowstone National Park in Wyoming

Montana – 2020

Visited Glacier National Park near Kalispell, Montana

Idaho – 2020

Visited the massive Shoshone Falls in Southwest Idaho

Alaska – 2023

Exploring the beauty of Denali National Park in Alaska

50 Countries in 50 Photos

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Earlier this summer, I hit a major travel milestone: crossing off my 50th country! Other than a brief pause from work between October 2011-April 2012, when I decided to quit my first corporate job and study abroad in Taiwan, I’ve held a full-time job since graduating in June 2010. I’m amazed at how much of the world I’ve been able to see over the years just by maximizing my time off.

Without a doubt there were five things that helped me travel this much:

  • doing points and miles over the past 15+ years
  • keeping rent and food costs low to afford travel and payoff student loans
  • working for employers that offered 20+ days of paid vacation
  • taking vacations around at least one federal holiday
  • country stacking and visiting multiple countries on one trip

While a few of these visits, like Canada and Japan, were done before college, the vast majority of these adventures happened in the years since. For frequent favorites like France and Mexico, choosing just a single picture was incredibly difficult. For others, I only had an extended layover and a few hours to capture the moment. Without further ado, here is a visual timeline of the past 15+ years: one photo and the year of my visits for every country, in chronological order.

01 – Canada – 1999, 2006, 2015, 2016

Admiring the Toronto skyline

02 – Japan – 2004, 2015, 2023

Cherry blossom chasing around Tokyo

03 – United Kingdom – 2008, 2026

Eating some fish and chips in London

04 – China – 2009, 2015

Seeing the Terra Cotta Warriors in Xian

05 – Taiwan – 2011

Biking around Sun Moon Lake in Taiwan

06 – Malaysia – 2012

Outside Masjid Jamek, my first visit to a mosque, in Kuala Lumpur

07 – Singapore – 2012

Seeing the merlion in Singapore

08 – Turkey – 2013

Outside the Hagia Sophia in Istanbul

09 – Greece – 2013, 2024

Visiting Athens for the first time

10 – Switzerland – 2014, 2023

Walking around the beautiful streets of Lucerne, Switzerland

11 – India – 2014

Visiting the Taj Mahal in Agra, India

12 – Australia – 2015

Admiring the beauty of Hobart, Tasmania

13 – United Arab Emirates – 2015

Afternoon tea at the Burj Khalifa

14 – South Korea – 2016, 2023

Hiking around Seoul

15 – Nepal – 2016

Reaching Everest Base Camp in Nepal

16 – Qatar – 2016

Visiting the Museum of Islamic Art in Doha

17 – Chile – 2017, 2024

Gazing at the beauty of Torres del Paine

18 – South Africa – 2017

Admiring the beautiful South African coast in Cape Town

19 – Netherlands – 2017

Wandering around the streets of Amsterdam

20 – Iceland – 2017

Standing inside of a glacier in Iceland

21 – France – 2018, 2021, 2022, 2023, 2024

Wine tasting in Burgundy

22 – Monaco – 2018

Views of Monaco

23 – Belgium – 2018

Waiting for the subway in Brussels

24 – Austria – 2018

Walking around the Schonbrunn in Vienna, Austria

25 – Cambodia – 2018

Visiting Ankor Wat in Cambodia!

26 – Thailand – 2016, 2018

Admiring the skyline in Bangkok!

27 – Colombia – 2019

Trying mangosteen and other fruits at a market in Bogota

28 – Costa Rica – 2021

Sunset over the Pacific Coast in Costa Rica

29 – Mexico – 2021, 2022, 2023, 2024

Visiting Chichen Itza in the Yucatan

30 – Luxembourg – 2021

Wandering around the hilly streets of Luxembourg

31 – Spain – 2021

Admiring the Islamic Architecture at the Alhambra in Granada

32 – Portugal – 2021

Watching the sunset over Lisbon

33 – Germany – 2021

Checking out the Mercedes Benz Museum in Stuttgart

34 – Italy – 2022

Running around the streets of Florence, Italy

35 – Hungary – 2022

View of the Danube from Buda, Hungary

36 – Slovakia – 2022

View of the Danube in Bratislava, Slovakia

37 – Israel – 2023

Admiring the Sea of Galilee

38 – Palestine – 2023

Visiting the Church of the Nativity, where Jesus was born, in Bethlehem.

39 – New Zealand – 2023

Bike riding the Alps2Ocean trail in the South Island

40 – Fiji – 2024

Gazing at the countryside of Viti Levu in Fiji

41 – Peru – 2024

Visiting Macchu Picchu!

42 – Panama – 2024

Checking out the views of the skyline in Panama City

43 – Guatemala – 2024

Wandering around the cobblestone streets of Antigua, Guatemala

44 – Argentina – 2024

Wine tasting in Mendoza

45 – Egypt – 2024

Wandering around the Pyramids and the Sphinx in Giza, Egpyt

46 – Ireland – 2025

Visiting the Guinness Factory in Dublin

47 – Norway – 2026

Seeing ‘The Scream” in Oslo, Norway

48 – Sweden – 2026

Visiting the World of Volvo Museum in Gotheburg

49 – Denmark – 2026

Walking around Nyhavn in Copenhagen

50 – Slovenia – 2026

Visiting Lake Bled

51 – Croatia – 2026

Visiting Plitvice National Park

2025 Year in Review and 2026 Goals

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Hard to believe that yet another year has come and gone!

Without a doubt, by far the biggest highlight this past year has seeing my little one grow up! He is now just over 14 months old, and it’s been such a life changing experience seeing him develop one day at a time. 

Travel: 

22980 miles flown, 1 New Country Visited, Visited Mexico 3x this year! 

January – Day trip to Portland

Visiting the Japanese Garden in Portland

February – Day Trip to Pasadena 

Visiting the Gamble House in Pasadena

June – Long weekend in Puerto Vallarta & Long weekend in Ireland

First trip after little one was born! Visiting Hyatt’s Dreams Resort in Puerto Vallarta!
Dining in Belfast!
Hiking along the Irish Sea around Dublin City

August – Long weekend to Mexico City, and 2-night work trip to NYC

Meeting up with friends while traveling for work in NYC!
Visiting Casa Luis Barragan (famous Mexican Architect) in CDMX!

October – Long weekend visit to Cabo San Lucas

Weekend escape to Cabo San Lucas

November – Thanksgiving week in Los Angeles

Hanging in the common space at Google Spruce Goose office in Playa Vista

December – Southern California (Palm Springs, San Diego) 

Checking out the murals at the Thompson Palm Springs
Walking along Mission Beach Promenade in San Diego

Parenting: 

  • Surviving the first full year as a parent !!
  • Mason in daycare 
  • Mason’s first road trip
Catering from Jolibee for our little one’s first birthday!

Health: 

  • Lowered my A1c from 6.1 to 5.8 
  • Ran three half marathons, two of which were sub 2 hours. 
First half marathon of the year in February, and it completely rained out!
First half marathon where I finally ran a sub-2 hour time! The SF Half Marathon!

Final half marathon of the year in October in San Jose!

Career

View of Downtown New York from the Google NYC’s St John Terminal Office
  • Working on web projects instead of email-related projects
  • Building agentic solutions for marketers
  • Getting shoutouts at work

Spiritual: 

  • Continued going to Grace Cathedral
  • Attended events through Temple Emanu-El 
Sunday mornings are for services at Grace Cathedral (parenting schedule permitting!)

Language Learning: 

  • Completed 20+ hours of French classes via Babbel Live, though stopped after I returned from parental leave in April 2025
My 2025 youtube recap! Many of the travel vlogs and exploring cities are
French-speaking YouTuber channels!

Reading

Read / listened to five books this year:

Reading all about zoning in Ellickson’s America’s Frozen Neighborhoods
  • High, Erika Fartland (January) 
  • America’s Frozen Neighborhoods, Robert Ellickson (February)  
  • Wounded Tigris, Leon McCarron (March)
  • White Rural Rage, Paul Waldman (October) 
  • Abundance, Ezra Klein and Derek Thompson (December)

2026 Goals

Life has certainly changed especially now that I’m a parent. I’ve continued to reduce my travel aspirations and instead focus more on what I can do closer to home. Here’s what I’m hoping to do in the new year!

  • Visit all the SF Public Libraries (28 total) with little one 
  • Visit a new country 
  • Bring down my A1C from to 5.6 
  • Bring down my cholesterol from 133 back to 108
  • Continue my running / strength training routines
  • Continue going to Grace Cathedral and Temple Emanu-El 
  • Run another half marathon, maybe complete a triathlon 
  • Continue doing B1/B2 classes with Lingoda
  • Read at least five books this year!

How I Spent My Paternity Leave

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Towards the end of last year, through the miracle of modern science and our wonderful surrogate, my husband and I welcomed our first child into this world. Becoming a parent has always been something that I’ve wanted to experience, and the last six months have been certainly the most life-changing chapter of my life.

I had exactly 167 days of leave, which was the longest period I’ve ever had without being in an office/work environment since finishing college in 2010. I’ll preface everything by saying that I had no idea what to expect besides sleep deprivation, and doing anything as a new parent would not have been possible without the following:

  • working for a company that offered 18 weeks of paid leave
  • taking an additional 4 weeks off work without pay
  • starting daycare when our son was 15 weeks old
  • having my mom and mom-in-law available to help with child care
  • being intentional about how I wanted to spend my time

What I would recommend for those thinking about what to do while on paternity leave:

  • Be realistic about what you can feasibly do. As a first time parent, I had no idea what to expect, other than sleep deprivation.
  • Create structure in your day. Without having a job to go to, I found myself feeling untethered, which felt problematic. For me, French classes and my workout schedule helped ground me.
  • Take it easy. This time is for bonding and for figuring out all things parenting. Anything else is truly extra.

For privacy sake, I’ll spare the photos of my little one.

Without further ado, my leave by the numbers…

  • Hikes: 15
  • Wine Tastings: 7
  • Architecture Tours: 5
  • Trains/Planes/Ferries Taken: 9
  • Books Read: 7
  • Classes Taken: 2(ish)
  • Museums Visited: 21
  • Races Ran: 1

Hiking Adventures (15 hikes)

Bayview Trail (Treasure Island)
American River Trail (Sacramento)
Wildcat Canyon Park (El Cerrito)
Mt Wanda Trail (Martinez)
UC Davis Arboretum Trail (Davis)
Robert Dollar Drive Trail (San Rafael)
Tennessee Valley Trail (Mill Valley)
Lake Chabot Loop (Castro Valley)
Pedro Point Loop (Pacifica)
Coyote Hills Bayview Loop (Fremont)
Stevens Creek Trail (Mountain View)
Cabrillo Point Bayview Trail (San Diego)
West Cliff Drive & Natural Bridges Trail (Santa Cruz)
Nimitz Way (Berkeley)
Muir Woods to Mt Tam (Mill Valley)

Wine Tasting (7 tastings)

Novelty Hill (Woodinville)
Hall Wineries (St Helena)
Quivira Vineyards (Healdsburg)
Opus One Winery (Oakville)
Chateau Montelena (Calistoga)
Donum Estate (Carneros)
Stag’s Leap Wine Cellars (Napa)

Architecture Tours (5 buildings)

San Francisco City Hall
Frank Lloyd Wright’s Marin County Civic Center (San Rafael)
Frank Lloyd Wright’s Hollyhock House (Pasadena)

Trains, Planes & Ferries (9 journeys)

SF Ferry rides to 1/ Vallejo, 2/ Sausalito, 3/ Richmond, 4/ Angel Island
Amtrak California to Sacramento
Day trip to Pasadena
Day trip to Portland
Day trip to San Diego
Weeklong visit to Puerto Vallarta with my in-laws!

Books Read (7):

Reading about U.S. zoning laws on my commute to San Jose
  • Bringing Up Bebe by Pamela Druckerman (October) 
  • The Deepest South of All, Richard Grant (November) 
  • The Amur River, Colin Thubron (November) 
  • Sovietistan, Erika Fartland (December)
  • High, Erika Fartland (January) 
  • America’s Frozen Neighborhoods, Robert Ellickson (February)  
  • Wounded Tigris, Leon McCarron (March)

Classes Taken (2)

I’m considering a potential career change into urban planning, and enrolled in a 15 week on-site course as an open university student at San Jose State. I’m halfway through the semester and have learned a ton!

Real Estate Finance class during Spring 2025 semester at San Jose State

In addition to urban planning studies, I continued to work on my French. My goal with French is to be able to communicate at a basic level, especially at wineries and restaurants, while in France or other Francophone countries. I took about 60+ hours of classes between Nov ’24 – Feb ’25.

My most recent babbel classes.

Museums Visited (21)

Around the Bay Area and beyond I visited 21 different museums, I’ll spare the photos for all of them, but the top highlights were the three NPS sites located nearby:

  • Angel Island Immigration Museum
  • Rosie the Riveter National Historic Site
  • Fort Point National Historic Site
view of the Golden Gate atop Fort Point

Races Ran (1)

I completed the San Francisco Half-Marathon back in February. This was the first time I’ve ever ran a race in the rain. I absolutely never do another race in the rain ever agin. Despite the heavy rains, I set a new PR: 2 hours, 1min and 30 seconds!

At the finish line!!

Reflection

I still can’t believe I spent nearly the last six months being out of office. It truly was a memorable experience and am forever grateful for this time. That being said, I am eagerly looking forward to getting back to work and seeing what this next stage of my life will look like, as a working parent!